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I have a great personality i believe. i am funny in my own way and very loyal to my friends. I am a natural sista 3C/4A hair and am challenging myself to have healthy hair and healthy skin. I am not a length crazy person but i am attempting to grow my hair off as long as i can then i am going to cut it off like Halle Berry. I love to cook so sometimes i will post recipes. My loves are clothes, skin, makeup, shoes, food, alcohal, hair, and my son. LOL! Stay Tuned!

Friday, April 30, 2010

Lemonade Champagne Cocktail


1 (750-milliliter) bottle Champagne, chilled

3 cups lemonade, chilled

1/2 cup fresh-squeezed orange juice

Garnish: lemon twist, orange twist


In a large pitcher, combine Champagne, lemonade, and orange juice. Serve cold, or over ice. Garnish with lemon twist and orange twist, if desired.

Lemon Drop Martini



Sanding sugar

2/3 cup lemon vodka, Smirnoff®

1/3 cup fresh lemon juice

2 tablespoons triple sec

Garnish: lemon drop candies


In a shallow dish, place a small amount of vodka. In another small shallow dish, add desired amount sanding sugar. Dip rim of a chilled cocktail glass into vodka, and then into sanding sugar. Let stand to dry.

Fill a cocktail shaker halfway with ice cubes. Add lemon vodka, lemon juice, and triple sec. Shake with ice, and strain into prepared martini glasses. Garnish with lemon drop candies, if desired.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

Ciara... Body Obsession

my motivation continues as summer rolls closer. let her motivate u to get that there n shape.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Do everything with love

Its funny that with my son i can do everything with patience. he never irritates me at all. even when he cries if i am patient and loving it seems he calms down and we get along perfectly.

i am going to implement that today with everybody patience and love = easier day.

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Ten Commitments ?

I was reading this book "A conversation with God!" A man had a conversation with God to the point that he wrote a couple of books. They had a question and answere thing going on. This is the clarification that God gave the author on the ten commadments, Check it out...

Ten Commitments

You shall know that you have taken the path to God, and you shall know that you have found God, for there will be these signs, these indications, these changes in you:

1. You shall love God with all your heart, all your mind, all your soul. And there shall be no other God set before Me. No longer will you worship human love, or success, money, or power, nor any symbol thereof. You will set aside these things as a child sets aside toys. Not because they are unworthy, but because you have outgrown them.

And, you shall know you have taken the path to God because:

2. You shall not use the name of God in vain. Nor will you call upon Me for frivolous things. You will understand the power of words, and of thoughts, and you would not think of invoking the name of God in a unGodly manner. You shall not use My name in vain because you cannot. For My name -- the Great "I Am” -- is never used in vain (that is, without result), nor can it ever be. And when you have found God, you shall know this.

And, I shall give you these other signs as well:

3. You shall remember to keep a day for Me, and you shall call it holy. This, so that you do not long stay in your illusion, but cause yourself to remember who and what you are. And then shall you soon call every day the Sabbath, and every moment holy.

4. You shall honor your mother and your father -- and you will know you are the Son of God when you honor your Father/Mother God in all that you say or do or think. And even as you so honor the Mother/Father God, and your father and mother on Earth (for they have given you life), so, too, will you honor everyone.

5. You know you have found God when you observe that you will not murder (that is, willfully kill, without cause). For while you will understand that you cannot end another’s life in any event (all life is eternal), you will not choose to terminate any particular incarnation, nor change any life energy from one form to another, without the most sacred justification. Your new reverence for life will cause you to honor all life forms -- including plants, trees and animals -- and to impact them only when it is for the highest good.
And these other signs will I send you also, that you may know you are on the path:

6. You will not defile the purity of love with dishonesty or deceit, for this is adulterous. I promise you, when you have found God, you shall not commit this adultery.

7. You will not take a thing that is not your own, nor cheat, nor connive, nor harm another to have anything, for this would be to steal. I promise you, when you have found God, you shall not steal.
Nor shall you...

8. Say a thing that is not true, and thus bear false witness.
Nor shall you...

9. Covet your neighbor’s spouse, for why would you want your neighbor’s spouse when you know all others are your spouse?

10. Covet you neighbor’s goods, for why would you want your neighbor’s goods when you know that all goods can be yours, and all your goods belong to the world?

You will know that you have found the path to God when you see these signs. For I promise that no one who truly seeks God shall any longer do these things. It would be impossible to continue such behaviors.
These are your freedoms, not your restrictions. These are my commitments, not my commandments. For God does not order about what God has created -- God merely tells God’s children: this is how you will know that you are coming home.

senegalese twists

im thinking about doing this for my spring look

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

peach sangria

i went to a restaurant for lunch and they had this yummy peach sangria here is the recipe the waiter gave me

pineapple juice 
peach syrup 
white wine
soda water

here is my rendition 
pinepple juice
peach brandy or schnapps
white wine
peach vodka
garnish with peaches

yummy try it and tell me what you think

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

im not a junior anymore ... random thought

i went shopping today and as i was trying on clothes. i looked like a whore. a bad one at that. meaning everything i tried on was tooo tight in all the wrong places. yes my ass looked big but tacky, my thighs were popping out the sides, and who in the hell thought of low rise jeans in the first fucking place.

then i ventured to a different section of the store, oh what is this, Misses section. the jeans fit perfectly showed my shape but not too tight, the jeans fit right up to my belly button, i can breathe, i likes this.

Excited about this new find i contacted my BFF. she laughed at me. Jaye you still shop in juniors you have a baby now, your hips have spread, you are a woman and may i remind you, you are 3*.

Right on, so i got to thinking i do dress so immature, i mean half the time i am in a uniform so i dont really think about my street clothing as much anymore. i dont go to clubs so i dont need club wear.

i am going to start picking some new pieces, more age appropriate because did you guys know... i am a woman now. (SMILE)

p.s. then y am i in an A cup :( (so frusturating)

wash and go

wiggin it

Straight hair

my husband loves my hair straight. but it causes so much heat damage what should i do.....

Thursday, April 8, 2010

clothing obsession

I must get this oooohhh i would look so good sitting on the beach in florida listening to some jazz wearing this ensemble. jealous much LMAO and its only 19.99


hair obsession

pics from naturally random MUAH


i simply love all of her

Jan. 17, 2010 - Hollywood, California, United States - Presenting actress Halle Berry poses in the pressroom of the 67th Annual Golden s Awards presented by the Hollywood Forreign Press Association at Hotel Beverly Hilton in Beverly Hills, Los Angeles, USA on january 17th, 2010. 2010.K64261AM. © Red Carpet Pictures

39250, LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA - Tuesday April 6 2010. Halle Berry leaves the Staples Centre in LA after seeing the Alicia Keys concert. Photographer: Adrian Varnedoe,

enough ENOUGH already of obsessing i feel like cutting my hair off and never eating again

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Hair Inspiration

Natural Skin Care regimins

So i had horrible skin until i used natural soaps but here are a couple of recipes i use now for my skin and some that i will use in the future.


cleanse your face with your natural soap, make sure it is wet then
i used small handful of brown sugar and EVOO to make a gritty oil paste. rub rub scrub scrub then rinse. leaves a beautiful glow and rids your face of that old skin


i always want to do a chemical peel but never have wanted to put up the money so i found this recipe and i have tried it

on a cleanse moist face
3 tsp of H20
4 tsp of Baking soda
5 drops of EVOO

scrub scrub scrub. this burns my skin to no end and when i rinse it off  may face is slightly red. but the next day my skin looks fabolous.

I put a small amount apricot kernal oil on after the treatment. i am going to do this twice a week!

Remove Dark Spots

use a high acidic fruit or vegetable.
Place skin and juice of a tomato on cleansed skin for 10 minutes.

BlackHead Removal

honey is great to remove blackheads. Warm honey and apply for 10 minutes. Rinse with cold water.

Lemon juice, lime juice, powdered cinnamon, apply overnight. removes blackhead and cleanse skin, tighten pores.

oatmeal and rosewater  mix with warm H20 to create a mask. removes blackheads and tightens pores.

potatoes. grated potatoes removes blackhead, pimples, spots,white head and wrinkles. rub the gratings to area for 5 minutes, rinse with water.


1 cup of water with 1/2 cup of ACV wash face twice daily.

Almond Oil

(Sweet) Almond Oil,

Cold pressed from the dried kernels of the almond tree, is an excellent emollient (softening and soothing to the skin) and is known for it's skin nourishing properties. It is a great moisturizer, makes a stable luxurious mild lather and helps condition the skin. This oil has a fine texture and is easily absorbed, leaving the skin soft and smooth without a greasy feel. Not only does this oil help protect the skin's surface, but it also acts as a conditioner to help promote a clear, clean, young looking complexion. It is rich in essential fatty acids, vitamins A, B1, B2, B6, and E and is said to relieve dry, itchy skin. In hair care, sweet almond oil helps condition, nourish, and soften hair.

Friday, April 2, 2010

The Beautiful Body

Erykah Badu made a contriversial video which i am not going to discuss but what is the fear of our beautiful body?

Only americans fear themselves what we really look like. I myself love nudity not for the sexuality but the comfortableness. the breeze being free.

Maybe if we stop playing so much SEX on TV maybe our kids and society would not be so vulgar thinking, so uglym so self conscious, so sad, so ordinary!

Love thyself just as is!

Favorite Products

  • MAC Cosmetics
  • Eyes Lips Face cosmetics
  • NYX Cosmetics
  • Chagrin Valley Soap
  • Mane and Tail Shea Butter and Aloe Creme
  • Elasta QP Condtioning Shampoo